There’s a time and place for everything. As this YouTube ad proves, pole dancing at a wedding is a terrible idea.

Title: Pole Dance Ruins Wedding

Stats: Posted to YouTube on Nov. 16, the video has amassed more than 1.2 million viewings and more than 1,400 comments, plus another 15 video responses.

What you see: You've seen this woman before no doubt, hopefully not at your own wedding—trampy red dress, a bit too much to drink, dancing alone, arms flailing. As hyper-repetitive guitar music plays in the background, the woman dances clumsily around a wedding tent, and a cheap handheld video camera follows her every move. It all goes awry when she straddles a support pole, sending the tent crashing down on revelers and leaving the bride with a bloody nose.